Miscommunication. There are
days when it seems to run rampant in the workplace, right? Why? Here’s my
theory – people don’t listen. Yep, that’s
it. They hear what’s being said alright,
they just don’t listen. Now, before you think I’m splitting hairs or playing
with semantics, hear me out; or better yet listen.

Listening means paying attention
to what’s being said with the intention of understanding.
In my opinion, this is the challenge. With all the multi-tasking being done –
answering calls, text messages, emails, contacting customers, meeting
deadlines, putting out fires, balancing budgets, managing employees – who in
the world has time to listen? And, why does it seem so hard?
Listening takes time and
focus. Too often instead of listening, we’re thinking about our reply and are
in such a hurry that we just blurt out a response before the other person is
even finished. In fact, I saw a quote that nicely sums it up – “Oh, I’m sorry.
Did the middle of my sentence interrupt the beginning of yours?”
Ouch. Yet I have to admit, I
am guilty of committing this offense every now and then; especially when I am
stressed. Not good.
We somehow have to make time
to listen because when we don’t, it can certainly mess things up. Not listening
leads to miscommunication and that can lead to false assumptions, conflict,
decreased productivity, mistakes, criticism, finger-pointing, missed
opportunities and the list goes on. Not exactly the environment anyone would
want to work in or one that fosters creativity and collaboration. Nobody said
it was going to be easy.
Are you listening? Think
about it.
Posted by MJ Thomas
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